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[life burns]

hi i want to know if you guys can help me me and my sister ant talking enymore and i was wondering if u lot could help.

i know its strange a compleat stranger asking for help but she has been spending alot of time on these boards she is mrgrunty.

[milliennium_fox]

Ok! I'll try to help!:D You and your sister haven't been talking? How long has it been? Do you have an idea as to why she has been distant from you?

[life burns]

its been about 3 months. and i think it has something to do with my cusans devoice going underway

[milliennium_fox]

Yeah, that can be tough. I'm not sure why your sister would be distant from you though. Your cousin's divorce shouldn't really cross between you and your sister. Perhaps your sister just feels confused in the whole mess. Have you tried to talk to her face to face?

[life burns]

i think it has something to do with me takeing my cusans side and she didnt take eather becose alans her friend too

[rizo_2999]

supprisingly, these kind of things happen alot on these boards (i.e. asking for help) i find the best thing to do in those sorts of situations is to ask her. if she wont talk to you, you have to talk to her. repeat until you get a response then Ask her why, and then talk it over. generaly helps with most of my family issues exept with brother who is stubborn as a mule and wil never agree to anything other than his side. no matter how stupid or childish his side is.:rolleyes:

[milliennium_fox]

Yeah, that might be it. It seems that your sister may have taken offense towards you siding with your cousin. The best way to handle this would be to leave the divorce to the people divorcing. Yes, it does sound rough to just ignore them but it was between them. No matter which side you take, they're still going to divorce. What does that mean? You shouldn't take sides in the situation. It might be best to stand back and simply comfort family and friends but not get yourself directly involved. You should confront and talk face to face with your sister. Make it clear how you feel about her and you not talking.

[Mrgrunty]

its got nothing to do with them you liar i dont care if youve sided against alan this is about what you did to me so good bye! and stop trying to call me!!

[rizo_2999]

......:( ouch, maybe you should give him a chance mrgrunty. Might be hard but the poor person a chance, they seem sorry, i mean, is the argument realy worth losing touch with a sibling over? if it is it must be pretty damned serious:(

[Mrgrunty]

he tryed to stop my wedding and get rid of my husband hes lucky i even class him as family

[milliennium_fox]

Do you know why he did that?

[Mrgrunty]

he did it becose he dont like my husband and he is gelus of me becose i have a family and money and he has nothing

[milliennium_fox]

What does he say about what he did?

[Mrgrunty]

lol he said that he wished he had got rid of mic when he had the chance insted of waiting untill we had anouced our engagement

[milliennium_fox]

Why does he hate your husband? Does your brother have a specific reason that he says?

[Mrgrunty]

i dont know why he hates him. maybe u shuld ask him if he comes back

[milliennium_fox]

Ok! I will!:D But, I've been thinking about it, and do you really want to stay mad at him for the rest of your life? He is family and he made a mistake. Your married now and I'm sure he probably already excepts this fact. Perhaps you should try and just let the wounds heal now.:)

[princesswitch]

dont worry you 2 will adventlluy talk, me and my sister always fight but we always make up

[milliennium_fox]

Lol! I wouldn't worry about that thread! It was the same person pretending to be another!:D

[Senor Rory]

haha. ahh, look at the legacy of us newer ones........some have really brought down our good name.....erm.....just name

[Shiro]

So who was life burns being? Not...:eek:

[milliennium_fox]

Er? What are you talking about?:confused:

[Shiro]

Someone said that it was someone impersonating someone... or something...:confused:

*Is majorly and fantastically confuzzled*

[milliennium_fox]

Mr.Grunty and Life Burns were the same person. There ya go! No more confuzzion!:D

[Shiro]

?! WHY

Why must people do that?:(

[milliennium_fox]

Maybe s/he enjoys RPing...or was REALLY bored...:p

[Shiro]

Well, it was quite a story she concocted...

[milliennium_fox]

Meh, I've seen better and worse!:p

[Shiro]

On this forum?:D

[milliennium_fox]

Nope nope! Elsewhere!:D It was dramatic...but they're story had some plot holes...:p :p :p

[Shiro]

Like... I was on a mission to the moon, and I was in the middle of my astronaut training in Cape Town...

And you went... 'AHA! It's Cape Canavarel! LOSERRRR!'

...or something like that? :D

[milliennium_fox]

Well.................................not quite!:p :p But yeah, that's another mystery solved and all that stuff!:p

[Shiro]

Haha! All thanks to the intrepid team of fox and... OK, just fox.:D

[Senor Rory]

yeah......i think the smuggling ring sub plot could have been done better. but when you read through it its a bit cack really. the way things are said are very....erm....i can't explain.....
very....like they're trying to make a story up. and trying VERY hard

maybe like......somebody else about here.
ie: talking total shit even when people know who it actually is
Looks like it might well start again. why don't he just quit

[rizo_2999]

i have no idea about you guys story but......mr gruntys brother was infact mr grunty!:confused: this has happend once to many for my liking.....

[milliennium_fox]

Poor Rizo!:p Anyhoo, it's true! They were one and the same!:D

[rizo_2999]

next you'll be telling me that mr grunty was frag all along and that your hogso, in a secret non-mod infiltration disguise! * shifty eyes...*:eek:

[Shamay]

Thats really scary... Really really scary!!!
So was Mr Grunty who she said she was or was it all a big story? Im scared...

[Zolo]

Originally posted by rizo_2999
next you'll be telling me that mr grunty was frag all along and that your hogso, in a secret non-mod infiltration disguise! * shifty eyes...*:eek: ive hada couple of convos with mr grunty so impossible but that one sounds even weirder than my story...or does it dum dum dum dumm

[Hogso]

I can comfirm that mrgrunty...is not fragment :)

[Shamay]

Well thats a load off Rizos mind... He'll be lightheaded :p

[rizo_2999]

well thats a relief, i was at my wits end with this whole multiple personality thing:p
EDIT: now thats just damn scary shamay!

[Zolo]

Originally posted by Hogso
I can comfirm that mrgrunty...is not fragment :) thank you.so did mr grunty and life burns have the same ip thingy

[Hogso]

They did indeed :)

[Shamay]

Thats just cruel of Mr Grunty, confusing us all like that... Maybe she wanted to leave and decided to go in a big show?

[milliennium_fox]

You know what the funny thing is? She was just here a few minutes ago...coincidence she didn't reply?:D

[Zolo]

she was looking at off topic i was looking on the whos online :D

[Shamay]

Wow, thats strange... Wonder what shes doing?

[milliennium_fox]

She only replied to her thread in the colloseum then left.:D

[Shamay]

Silly her :p I may go see what she said in a minute...

[Shiro]

I was a member of a chat room once, getting on well with everyone, then one of the other users changed his avatar and handle so they looked almost exactly like mine, and started causing trouble. It reet pissed me off, because that ruined it for me, no-one trusted me any more. :mad:

[milliennium_fox]

Oooo...sorry to hear...just not sure why you brought it up though...:p

[Shiro]

Because of the mrgrunty/lifeburns and other issues we've had here.

[milliennium_fox]

Oh! Ok! Me see!:D Quite a lot of them, no?:D

[Shiro]

Ummm... yeah. Hopefully they're sorted now though! :D

[Zolo]

theyd better be